SELF CARE

Hello everyone and welcome back!!

I felt the need to come on and do a short post because I felt real SHIT today and I feel it’s good to express this as mentioned before not everyone is living a perfect life and just because their Instagram or social media portrays they are happy doesn’t mean they genuinely are.

Today I had a strange day with weird emotions (weird is good right). I felt exhausted and just like I haven’t had a break lately to myself. Since January from I have arrived back to Sydney I have been super hectic with getting back into work, settling in my apartment, getting new house mates, getting back into normality and just finding that balance of life again.

I have struggled with stress overload more so lately from what I have dealt with but I see these situations as learning curves and it’s good to change scenery, change routine, change hobbies, change friends. This will bring out the best in you and once you change small things bigger things will come.

Past couple of weeks I have been rushed off my feet planning for a lot of stuff coming up over the next couple of months and I honestly didn’t plan most of it so it’s kind of just hit me in the face unexpectedly but I feel like that’s how good things always plan to happen lol. I’m honestly grateful that these opportunities have reached my direction and I’m more so happy within myself that I have accepted them, even though they have all kind of timed to happen at once haha.

If you don’t take up on these opportunities you may never get a chance for them again.

Also at the beginning of this week it kick started with me hitting 2K followers on my Instagram!!! Woohooo I’m bloody so hyper that this small but big achievement has happened in such small amount of time as although my blog started a year ago when I began my travels, it hasn’t really kicked off until January after farm work until I had more time to put 100% effort in.

Since then I have been putting in a lot of my time as I can see the potential I have to help & inspire people. Recently I received a lot of messages about how I have inspired people to take risks and live their dreams because my blog explains I have done this. This makes my heart so happy, knowing little old me has helped people and then can only get better, right?!

I want to thank everyone of you who has supported me whether it be the last year or recently because you have helped me become more confident and have helped me find passion in writing and sharing my experiences.

To thank you all, I’m sharing a free give away/ competition with lots of amazing goodies next Friday 24th May. Make sure to enter and good luck in advance!! 🎁

Anyway let’s get to the point. I tried all afternoon to speak on my story on insta and I just wasn’t in the right mind set so I was like okay it is important to say how I feel so instead I will do a blog post.

So today I realised and thought to myself…When was the last time I took time off and chilled?! I actually couldn’t remember. After farm work I had no break I was straight into temp jobs & ever since I have been crazy busy. Weekends are my only time off work but I never sit down, most of my friends always say I like to get every hour in out of the day?! Haha

Something just hit me today where I was like gosh I need some self time, took the night off the gym and came home to new PJs, fluffy socks & dressing gown. Sat down with a cup of tea and reflected on how important it is to have these important moments.

We all live super busy lifestyles and don’t get me wrong I love being busy and keeping my mind productive but you need to have self care time where you stop, take a break and relax. If you don’t remind yourself to do this, is anyone else going to pat you on the shoulder and remind you???

My skin has broke out lately and I spent the evening pampering myself and now I feel so refreshed. Please take a day or week every so often if you don’t already to just rest and look after your own mind. You need to escape your busy bubble and do this or it could really start to affect your mood & you may become sad or get anxiety.

I attended a workshop last night in North Sydney held through One Eighty. Check out their page for anyone interested in future events!

The workshop was focused on 14-24 year olds and it was based on Healthy Mind/ Healthy Body. I travelled 2 hours from work to attend this event by myself but I was super excited!! The ladies who ran the event were bloody amazing and covered everything I wanted to hear.

They discussed how certain foods can affect your skin, gut & mood. Also they discussed mental health on how you need to have boundaries for people who aren’t doing you any favours, so if your in someone’s company who you feel isn’t impacting you in a positive way that you want them too. Then cut them, you don’t need them and we need to learn to say no. If we don’t we go around on this cycle and are just constantly going to be dealing with the same situation or person.

We were made to write down 5 things that we as individuals think we are and the person next to us as had to write down 5 things they also thought you were. You then had to compare what you thought you were and what your friend thought you were and see if there was a difference. As I was alone I began writing a few words nervously because we never really stop and think what we think we are to others. A girl behind me pay me on my arm and said “I think you are independent”, I literally just became a ball of emotions and was like wow this is so kind and really meant so much to me.

Although I have been in a relationship for almost 7 years I still love my alone time to meet new people and have the independency to attend events without that fear of being alone. If you don’t and your constantly in your partners company it isn’t good for your mind, you need to stay open to others and be free to have fun. When you do you will attract good energy, in which I did I met 2 beautiful girls who started chatting to me, give me a lift to the bus stop and showed they cared. Little things like this make me so happy!!

Another thing I learnt was that one of the ladies explained how through her teenage years she listened to her parents and other family members around her tell her “she should” be doing this or “she should” being doing a certain course to get a certain job. At the time and because she was so young she listened but she took action and then after many years realised she done something because others influenced her to go down this path when she didn’t particularly want to.

She has since left this career and is living a completely different lifestyle which she thought she should be living and not want others dictated that she should be living. I think this is very important that only you, yourself can make these big decisions and don’t let someone tell you what you should be doing and expect that to be what will make you truely happy because it won’t.

I hope this blog post has helped a little and will give you a reminder for self care and to check in on yourself every once in awhile. Chill, relax then continue doing your thing!! 💥

Thank you for reading lovelies, remember my competition is being announced on my Instagram next Friday.

Lots of love,

EmmaInWanderLand 😘

DARKNESS INTO LIGHT 2019

Hi everyone and welcome back to my blog!!

I thought I would do a short blog post about Darkness into Light as it is coming up next week and I’m taking part in order to raise funds to help prevent suicide and self harm.

Some of you may not know what this is or have ever heard of Darkness into Light before so I will start by giving you a short intro.

What is Darkness into Light???

On May 11th hundreds and thousands of people around the world in over 16 countries participate and come together to walk from the darkness of the night into the light of the morning to help the global fight against suicide and self harm.

The 5km walk represents the therapeutic counselling journey. This shows the importance of mental health and well being in all our lives as individuals.

All entry fees raised from around the world go towards Pieta House and international charity partners such as PIPS Charity based on Antrim Road, Belfast.

Local Charities…

PIPS provide support to locals who are considering or may have at some point considered ending their own life. They also provide support to local families & friends who may have been touched by suicide.

What is Pieta House???

Pieta House provides one to one counselling to people suffering from suicide ideation and engaging in self game or those who bereaved by suicide.

Last year in 2018, Pieta House helped almost 7,500 people.

I feel extremely excited to participate in the walk which I will doing next Saturday from Bondi Beach at 5am, hopefully I see some familiar faces!

Ormeau Park Belfast is the venue for Belfast so if you are interested in participating please do so by registering via Darkness into Light’s website: https://www.darknessintolight.ie/our-charity-partners#Lump11561

Participating in the walk and knowing I am making a real and measurable difference especially for my own country whilst doing this event on the other side of the world, is actually quite emotional as the suicide figures back home are so high. It was frightening how often there was a suicide announced on social media back home so just imagine the ones that also happen but don’t get shared on social media.

Every 40 seconds a person dies by suicide

Suicide is a major health issue which devastates families and communicates. Thoughts of suicide or suicidal behaviour can be triggered by a single event or a series of events over time.

Suicide and self harm can be linked to many life problems which leads to feelings of hopelessness & despair such as:

  • Trauma of abuse
  • Poverty
  • Money / debt problems
  • Unemployment
  • Drug/ alcohol misuse
  • Social isolation
  • Pool social conditions/ homelessness
  • Violence
  • Family/ relationship problems
  • Previous suicide attempt
  • Family/ friend history of suicide
  • Imprisonment

I read online, people within Northern Ireland experience 20- 25% higher levels of mental health illness when compared to the rest of the UK.

There are significantly a lot higher levels of depression, antidepressant prescription rates and higher incidences of self harm within Northern Ireland.

Northern Ireland also has the highest rate of suicide within the whole of the UK.

Figures have proven that women are more likely to self harm & attempt suicide, whilst men are three times more likely to die by suicide.

I hope everyone reading this can kindly help out by registering to do the walk in an area close to you as this will go along way in helping out your local community.

Also for anyone who would like to show their support towards me participating you can make a donation through my PayPal link which will be sent to Pieta House Ireland and this will allow them to continue to deliver their vital services. £2, or even 50p can go an awful long way so please help out as much as you possibly can.

My fundraising link is below:

https://paypal.me/emmainwanderland?locale.x=en_GB

If you follow me on my Instagram emmajanecraig_x , check out for updates where I will show you all photos of the walk and the journey.

Thanks so much for reading and thanks in advance for anyone who helps out by either participating around the world in the walk or helps me fundraise.

Lots of love,

EmmaInWanderLand 💛

NEGATIVITY VS POSITIVITY

Hello and welcome back to my blog!!

I’ve been feeling very motivated and inspired lately and got a few things I wanted to share so I thought the best thing to do would be by a blog post.

As most of you are aware there are good & bad sides to social media. Few reasons to why I want to keep my Instagram feed & blog unique is because it can get so competitive and nasty. I dislike when people copy others and don’t be their own individual, some people think their lives need to be based on others.

Yes fair enough we all have atleast one person who we can think of as our inspiration and we admire every move or action they make and see no wrong in this person. That’s fine. It’s great to be inspired by atleast one person and look up to them as a little motivation.

Although I don’t agree on comparing yourself based on what you have or own to what others have or how you look to how they look. You have to be unique and love you in your own skin, give yourself that confidence boost by doing what genuinely makes you happy, have a hobby, have fun and then you will start glowing.

A few tips to get rid of those negative vibes is to unfollow/delete the people of your feed that are knocking your confidence or are not doing you any favours. Once you de clutter you will notice a change in your mood and when scrolling through your feed you won’t get annoyed.

Travelling has honestly opened up my eyes to many new things and looking over the past year since I have left home. I know I have become a stronger & more confident person.

I have motivated myself so much and have opened up many opportunities that I never knew would once be an option. I never doubt any thought or action, I always believe there will be a good outcome.

When travelling you meet so many different people which gives you a real eye opener and teaches you many life lessons. I always think back to school and how during education no one ever taught you how to deal with difficult situations or people that you may approach throughout life.

Some of you may agree but I have actually taught myself so many techniques by listening to podcasts and I feel like Tony Robbins is apart of my life. This man has totally opened up my eyes to many different situations that I have been hit in the face with previously but never knew how to deal with them, now I’m like wow wait I know exactly how to handle this.

Tony Robbins has taught me that anything life throws at you, happens for a reason. A negative situation arises. Okay get a pen and piece of paper and write down all the positives and negatives. I can promise you there will be atleast 1 positive outcome and you will take that to overcome the bad. When the situation passes over you will look back in days, weeks, months or years and laugh and say well that happened actually because of ……..

Back to where I mentioned that social media can be good and bad. This is also because there is always a lot more good mentioned than there is bad. Now let’s be realistic we all don’t live in a fairytale. Every now and again, we have real issues where we want to have a chat about or need a shoulder to cry on. These things never get shared it’s just always pictures of happy smiles and the sadness is left behind closed doors invisible of the public eye which portrays us to be humans that were not.

As most of you may know I’m currently living in Sydney, Australia. On my feed you all probably think wow she’s living the absolute dream…YES I AM!!! But that doesn’t mean my life doesn’t involve sad or stressful times that you can’t see.

For anyone who doesn’t already know the cost of living is very high within most cities in Australia and most people house share to cut this expense. When I first came out to Oz, I was honestly abit weary as I have never experienced this before and never knew what to expect. Obviously you don’t know anything until you take that risk and attempt it.

Our first year visa we lived with 2 Dutch guys which was fine. Guys are pretty relaxed and have that laid back attitude. Now into our second year visa we decided to live with 2 friends who we have known since we first hit Australia.

Previously living with guys I was so excited to have that little bit of home comfort & have girl time. As soon as we moved in together, I learnt to realise this was not a good idea. Everyday coming home from work I was utterly frustrated with many things.

As friends we had many conversations which involved agreeing and disagreeing about certain situations. Obviously this lead to awkwardness as being friends and having to discuss money, bills and serious things can make there become a strange vibe.

Everyone has their own problems & issues but one thing I don’t agree on is rubbing these onto someone else. Everyday coming home from work I would of heard negativity like I hate Sydney, I want to go home, there’s nothing to do here, I’m bored, I’ve no money, I want to leave.

When your surrounded by people who have a negative attitude or approach to certain things it can totally affect you as a person. I love Sydney, I absolutely love everything about it. Fair enough there’s people who may of came out here and realise that it’s not for them but they can’t rub this attitude on people who do actually enjoy being here.

Smaller things become bigger things. One thing leads to another and when there’s an awkwardness especially in your own home where your suppose to be relaxed and feel comfortable, it’s not a pleasant feeling.

I was coming home from work everyday to my bedroom. I got myself in this terrible rut where I knew if I left my room I would be faced with this huge awkwardness and I wanted to avoid that. I ended up never being home and would of went to the gym until very late to avoid being in the house.

I personally hate drama and confrontation so I felt like this was the best way to avoid the situation as I knew it wasn’t going to get any better until 1 day a bombshell came and our landlord texted me to make me aware the people would be leaving in a week. I automatically thought how can they do this, we haven’t got anyone to replace them for their side of the bills nor have we discussed the situation or how am I going to be able to afford full rent.

We then attempted to talk about this which made the situation worse as they couldn’t see no wrong. I didn’t mind if they made me aware as we were once friends and said I’m not happy I’m leaving we will attempt to get replacements for our share of the rent but no these people did not care about my feelings nor did they care me and my partner where going to be left to pick up the pieces.

I was totally upset by the situation as I thought they could have handled it in a much mature matter by not being sneaky and making decisions behind my back. However this has now taught me not to put 100% faith and trust into everyone you meet. This has now made me have higher standards for people I have to live with which isn’t fair on others. I just don’t want to be put in this situation ever again as it was totally horrible and caused extreme stress within my relationship as we both have to find time to do viewings and find new people to live with.

Speaking with a few friends who are travelling I have learnt to hear the same happen to them where they have realised it’s not a good idea to live with friends as it tears the friendship apart.

Looking at the situation now I have more positive outcomes listed than I do negatives as I know if that situation was permanent or had of lasted longer than it did. It would of started to affect me more as a person and may of lead to major unhappiness. Now a massive weight has been lifted, since then I have been extremely happy and many good things have opened up for me. I now look forward to the next people we live with and hope our home will be a much happier, positive environment.

I didn’t know about sharing this although I feel it’s very useful for people wanting to travel or for anyone who is planning on coming out to Australia and aren’t aware of having to house share or what it can be like.

Thanks so much for reading, I hope this may have helped some of you.

Lots of love,

EmmaInWanderLand 💓

Sydney Food & Drink

Hi guys and welcome back to my blog. I have received a lot of requests asking where the best places are to eat & drink in Sydney so I thought I would do a short little blog post to help you guys out.

Here are some of my favourite recommendations.

Brunch…

  • The Tiny Giant, Petersham
  • Social Hideout Cafe, Parramatta
  • The Grounds of Alexandria
  • Basket Brothers, CBD
  • XS Espresso, Parramatta
The Grounds of Alexandria

Lunch…

  • Tea Gardens, Bondi Junction
  • Little Chinese Kitchen, CBD Westfield food court
  • Guzman y Gomez
  • Milky Lane – Bondi Beach, Parramatta, Cronulla, Coogee, Crows Nest
  • Thirsty Bird, CBD
  • Burgers & Beers, Manly
  • Smoky Sue’s Barbecue, CBD
  • Big Daddy’s Burger Bar- Newtown, Darlinghurst, Redfern, Liverpool
  • Vecino, CBD
  • Peanut Butter Jelly, Manly
  • Betty’s Burgers, CBD
  • North Bondi RSL
Big Daddy’s Burger Bar, Newtown

Dinner…

  • Rosso Pomodoro Pizzeria, Balmain
  • Doughbox Diner, Brighton- Le-Sands
  • Cafe Del Mar, CBD
  • Lola Cocina Spanish Restaurant, Crows Nest
  • Searock Grill, Harbor views
  • The East Chinese Restaurant, Harbor views
  • Opera Kitchen
  • P.J. O’Briens- Sunday Roast, CBD
  • Hard Rock Cafe, Darling Harbor
  • Cafe Sydney, Harbor views
  • Epic Pizza, Darlinghurst, Enmore
  • Quay Restaurant, Harbor views
  • Bare Grill on Bourke, CBD
  • Chinatown
Searock Grill, Harbor

Drinks…

  • Bondi Icebergs
  • Pier One, CBD
  • Carter Bar, CBD
  • Ivy Pool Club, CBD
  • Opera Bar
  • Grandma’s Bar, CBD
  • 360 Bar & Dining, Sydney Tower
  • East Village Sydney, Darlinghurst
  • Hacienda Sydney, Harbor views
  • The Star Sydney, CBD
  • Marquee, The Star
  • Glenmore Hotel, The Rocks
  • Coogee Pavilion
  • Zeta Bar, CBD

360 Bar & Dining, Sydney Tower

I hope you enjoyed my blog post and found a few places where you would like to dine and enjoy a drink.

FIJI

Hi guys & welcome back to my blog!!! Ahhh i don’t even know where to even begin with this blog post?!?

Continue reading to find out about my week in Fiji and also a few helpful tips too. I promise by the end of this you will be planning your trip!!

This holiday was absolutely amazing, difinitely an experience that I will cherish forever and it’s now up with my top favourite places that I have travelled!!

So, with it being ozzy winter me and Nathan wanted some sun and also just somewhere to relax for a week as it’s been pretty hectic recently with working and moving into our home in Sydney.

After researching and finding out how cheap fights were to Fiji we paid $590 AUD each for return which is roughly £320 WOW!!! There were no second thoughts we booked this instantly (joys of blowing the joint account).

Fiji is only a 4 hour flight away from Sydney!! We flew directly into Nadi International.

Thankfully everything ran smoothly once we arrived to Nadi Airport. We were greeted before customs by Fijian men playing guitars and singing which was just so cute.

On the other side after collecting our luggage we were then greeted by our hotel rep with a name sign who was picking us up from the airport and took us directly to the hotel. This meant that there was no confusion or stress involved.

A taxi fare to/from Nadi Airport to any of the town’s in Nadi is roughly 10-15 FJI Dollars.

Accommodation…

We booked our hotel through Booking.com which I highly recommend I use it for every destination I visit!!

We stayed at Bamboo Travellers Beach Resort, for 7 nights it cost $450 AUD which is roughly 680 FJI Dollar, in British pounds this is only rouhly £250 so its very cheap for a week!!

The room was pretty basic and had everything you needed which is just to (sleep). However the staff, restaurant and bar was brilliant!! The vibe was great it was a young age group and very quiet which made me love it even more. The food here is delicious which helps if you just want to laze around the hotel.

Bamboo was based right on your own private beach only for hotel guests. There were various activities such as riding horses on the beach, kayaking and paddle boarding. You also had the option to get a massage on the beach!!

Night Entertainment…

You have a bar within your resort and also have the option of exploring other hotels in the area to relax and have a drink at night.

Or you can watch the sunsets which I’m a sucker for!! Pink skies.

Most nights me and Nathan drank on the beach watching the sunsets!!

There were also Fiji Dance & Fire shows on the beach infront of the hotel. They were great entertainment and so talented!

We stayed close to Nadi town which I would highly recommend if you come to Fiji. This is because if you stay in a resort it’s further out of the town and this way you will not get to experience the real Fiji Culture and lifestyle.

The location is very ideal as it’s only a 10 minute drive from the Airport and beside the hotel is various restaurunts and shops where you can buy liquor.

We stayed in Fiji for 7 nights and honestly I wish I did 10 nights but maybe that still wouldn’t of been long enough?!?

I already want to book the next flight back there. You’re probably wondering why???

Well I’ve never met more warming friendlier people than Fijians. They honestly don’t have a bad bone in their body. They stop what they are doing to get to know you and you could be there for hours talking to these friendly people.

They call their lifestyle Fiji Time as they believe there is no need to rush anything you need to do or anywhere you need to be will happen when it happens. They have a very relaxing lifestyle and this is why they are so happy and positive.

When visiting some of the local Fiji villages I learnt that everyone knows everyone and they all come together as a family and share everything they own as a whole (how lovely). They call eachother sisters/brothers there is no such a thing as cousins, nephews/nieces.

In the Fijian villages I learnt that they are very strict and in each village there is a chief which sets the rules and he is the only one in the village allowed to wear a hat. Everyone in the village must obey the chief and I got told some young people when they turn into teenagers cannot deal with the strictness so they leave the village and move into town with friends.

What did I get up to?!?

DAY 1:

We arrived to our hotel late in the afternoon and were exhausted as we were up from 5am so obviously we took a nap and just chilled around the hotel to get to know our surroundings.

DAY 2:

There was expected rain fall this day so we were prepared and booked a day trip, we booked this through the travel desk at our hotel.

It cost 99 FJI dollars each which included various stops in a few towns in which you got to experience how the Fijians live day to day.

First stop was at a farmers market were we tried local fruits my favourite was soursop it was very sweet and tasted like a custard apple!! Unfortunately I was too busy eating so I didn’t bring my phone out to take pics here but this is what soursop looks like!!

We then progresssed on to some souviner stores until we reached Nadi Town and stopped off at Sri Siva Subramaniya Temple.

We had a group tour and learnt a lot about the Hindu Religion, it was very interesting.

You were not allowed to take any photos inside the temple but the art was amazing!! Before you entered the temple you had to wear a sarong and take off your shoes as a sign of respect.

It costed millons of Fiji Dollars to build this beautiful temple!

After the temple we continued our day trip to another small town which had the Gardens of the Sleeping Giant. Here you can see the mountain shaped as a sleeping woman! Unfortunately because of the rain it was quite cloudy so we felt we didn’t get to fully experience it here.

After this tour we finished up at the Sabeto Hot Springs and Mud Pools this was a fun experience (plenty of giggles). The hot springs are run by the local villagers which use the funds from tourists to better their village! (How amazing?)

Basically we covered our entire bodies and slopped around in this warm gooey natural mud pit then walked through the village until it dried into our skin.

When it dried in we scrubbed it off in the mud pools and then relaxed in the geothermal hot pools which were natural springs. We then ended the day by getting a couples massage by the local villagers this cost only 20 Fijian Dollars each and it was super relaxing.

DAY 3:

We went to the world’s first island beach club. Malamala was unbelievable to just chill on a private island all day sipping on cocktails.

We also booked this through our hotel travel desk and it only cost 150 FJI dollars each but it included a $50 bar tab each and you could also kayak, paddle board and snorkel around the beach club.

It took roughly 30 minutes to get here by boat from our hotel and the views on route were something else!!

The pool was amazing everything was just so blue and for being on a Saturday it was not over crowded which made the day better!

For the first time ever i tried kayaking with Nathan when I asked him he actually almost fainted that I was getting in the water hahaha. For anyone who doesn’t know me one of my biggest fears is water and I cannot swim!! So this was a massive achievement for me and in result we did not tip over and had a really good stable balance so I’m super proud. It was also very fun I would advise anyone to try if they haven’t already!!

The food at Malamala was tasty I ordered coconut peri peri chicken and Nathan ordered sushi which came out in a coconut also! Everything is about coconuts in Fiji.

The rest of day was spent on a sun lounger taking in these breath taking views.

DAY 4:

We relaxed infront of our hotel appreciating that our resort was on a beach. Catching rays and sipping on coconuts of course!

We then took a stroll for dinner to a restaurant we found on TripAdvisor that was only a 5 minute walk away from our hotel.

Awesome Grill was beautiful we actually ended up here 3 times as the staff were so friendly and of course the food was delicious!! We tried the burgers and then bbq chicken pizza (twice).

When we return we will definitely be coming back to Awesome Grill it had a quiet chill vibe!

DAY 5:

This day was incredible and topped the holiday!!! I would highly recommend the tour we booked through, they are called South Sea Cruises.

The day trip cost 260 FJI Dollars each which included pick up/returns from your resort, ferries transfers to Mana islands then you get a private cruise to Modriki Islands where the famous Tom Hanks movie was filmed “Castaway featuring Wilson”.

Throughout the day on the cruise you get unlimited soft drinks and alcoholic (I had to suffer due to recently finding out I’m allergic to anything which is not a spirit alcohol drink).

For lunch you got a bbq on board which was delicious!!

Throughout the journey the staff made the trip extra special by playing some fijian music on their guitars and we enjoyed how helpful and friendly they were throughout the tour!

On route to the islands we sailed past the island that the Australian Survivor TV show is filmed!!

When stopping off at the islands they were private and you spent roughly 1 hour on each. It was really relaxing and amazing to take in these moments!! I still can’t believe I was on the same beach that Castaway was filmed. It was so so beautiful.

After seeing all the surrounding areas we stopped off for a swim and Nathan enjoyed diving off the boat & snorkeling whilst I soaked up the rays on the front of the boat!

Finishing up the day we went to a Fiji village which had roughly about 500 people living here. When entering the village we were greeted to enter the church and Nathan got to experience being a chief were he had to sit at the front of the room and try Kava.

Kava is what Fijians drink as they are not allowed to drink alcohol in the villages. It comes from the root of the pepper plant. The locals say Kava makes you relax and very sleepy lol. It looked like muddy water so I wasn’t brave enough to try!!

We walked through the village and all the locals were very friendly just doing what they do daily washing their clothes etc. We walked to the end of the village were the school was.

All the kids stay in dorms within the school grounds and it was very overwhelming to see this is how they live and they are so grateful and warm hearted. They waved and greeted us all by saying “Bula-Hello”.

After this we boarded our cruise back to the islands and had a few further stops to swim in the beautiful blue waters.

DAY 6:

Today we explored around Port Denaru which is roughly a 10-15 minute drive from Nadi. There is a shopping centre here which has a lot of souviner stores to browse around and buy gifts.

We ended the day by having dinner at the Hard Rock Cafe.

Me and Nathan are obessed with the Hard Rock restaurants anywhere we go we ensure we dine here!! The food is so yum and gives me mega Florida blues! If you haven’t already tried the bacon/cheese potato skins you need too.

DAY 7:

Today being our last day we catched the last few rays of sunshine and had breakfast at our hotel.

We then decided to end the trip by taking a walk into the town which was roughly a 40 minute walk from our hotel.

We had heard there was a Burger King newly opened and we were dying to try it as there is none in Australia it’s known as “Hungry Jacks” but it’s a totally different taste! It was great to be reunited with a whopper burger & onion rings.

With this being our final night of the holiday Nathan wanted to take me out for dinner (how romantic).

We were craving mexian food and found a beautiful mexian restaurant in a resort near Port Denaru called “Mamacita”.

Although the menu was better than I expected and I wish I could dine here everyday!!

The resort was over crowded and very busy so the atmosphere wasn’t what we were used to. We expected a Mexian vibe like music but there were a lot of kids and noise!

After the meal there was a Fiji warrior show which was cool!!

Unfortunately we didn’t have time to visit the Capital of Fiji which is Suva. It was roughly a 3 hour drive from Nadi.

Another thing we missed out on but will do when we return is Cloud 9. This costs roughly 229 Fijian Dollars which includes a $60 bar tab to spend on board.

Cloud 9 is a floating platform paradise sailing through turquoise blue waters with a stocked bar and pizza restaurant. It has sun decks and a dj to entertain. The photos actually look fake!!

Summing up the holiday I would definitely recommend this a destination to travel as a couple but not as a family.

It’s very romantic and I feel like there isn’t enough to do for kids so they would get bored easy but adults could live here!!

Anything to be aware of??

Anywhere I’ve travelled…especially Thailand a lot of the locals try to rip you off and try get every penny you own off you. It’s not like this in Fiji, the locals are very caring and make you feel at ease.

However if you are trying to get a taxi I advise you order one through your hotel reception like we did as they get you the taxis that are priced by meters which are a lot cheaper!! Outside the resorts there are a lot of taxi drivers who try stop you and will over charge you as they have their own prices so make sure to haggle with them before you get in the car!!

On the local beaches and streets there are a lot of stray dogs. This was my only fear on this holiday as I’m scared of large dogs but these dogs don’t know how to behave or interact which worried me. There were a few times the dogs faught amongst themselves and it was scary to watch. So if you’re travelling here just try to stay well away from them to be on the safe side.

When the sun begins to go down you will notice in the mountains and even on road bys there is a lot of smoke this is because the locals burn sugar canes and rubbish!! When we first seen it we were a little worried and thought there were volcanic mountains close until we asked a local so don’t panic!!

Personally this was amazing to experience with the person I love and we have ticked off another destination on our bucket list.

I feel like a piece of my heart will now forever be in Fiji so a trip back will be happening for sure.. soon I hope!!

Whilst travelling you don’t only learn so many new things but also have the opportunity to met some awesome people which make being so far away from home a little easier!!

Surprisingly we met a lovely girl from Belfast and it was very funny to hear the strong accent again as we haven’t heard it in a while lol.

Sadly this comes to the end of my blog on my trip to Fiji. I hope after reading this blog all of you book a flight to Fiji!!